Me and my husband haven't had the most active sex life ....our first month it was daily now I'm lucky if its 2x a week... it's been rough. He says not to ask if we will have sex but to just initiate it...like get naked or something... but why is it always me. I love when he starts it... it makes me feel desired... so tonight...

I lit some candles and put on new sheets cleaned up the room.

My husband just isn't a super sexual person we talk about it, he is attracted to me but just the sex... and he says he wants to change it but neither of us know how to make him want it more