Prepared for hate

Y'all. Im being pushed to the edge. I love my husband i really do. We've been together 11 years and married for 9. Again i say: I DO LOVE HIM.

But im struggling with a lot.

The farting

The burping

The sex jokes

The sex jokes

The sex jokes

The ass crack constantly hanging out

The 100+lb weight gain

The lack of will to get up and do anything unless I start doing it or complain enough.

He works and I know he's tired but he doesn't even try to be active.

The sex jokes

The fake guilt trips about sex and then saying he was joking

The sitting on the couch mouth open watching tv with his pants undone and shirt riding up while he lets food fall all over the place during dinner.

I'm just sick of it all and really trying not to lose my shit when I look at him.

Help????