No s*x desire !!

Anyone else going through this?? I never feel the desire to have sex & my husband is completely opposite. I can go on my whole life without it . If you were diagnosed with it , what were the causes?? I’ve been going through depression and always exhausted. It’s now destroying our relationship although there are several other reasons but this is the main one. I’ve never in my life have achieved orgasm if there’s anything like that.I just do it like a chore and always want to be done with it as early as possible.What is wrong with me???