UPDATE ON THE BOTTOM

So I’ve been seeing someone new and he shares the same values as I do. We both know what we want from the relationship and out of the relationship. Well, we went to target to buy some shampoo for his apartment, me as well as he has now given me a key to his place- and we saw this...

Now, he knows I was previously pregnant twice. We both laughed at how if we had a kid we would buy them this fit.

Well... he laughs and says, “Let’s buy it then. If we ever have kids- well we already have this wonderful shirt.”

I’m black and he’s white & honestly it made me so happy, because my family is diverse and his is as well & my ex’s family never liked black women or men.

I feel accepted, especially by my new mans family.

UPDATE: JANUARY 9th 2020

So there were two women that wanted to belittle me about this situation saying I was very immature for buying the onesie and that I live in a fantasy world for what I want. I choose to live a happy life. All of us have our own demons we’re battling, but I have been so so much better. The women tried to say I planned my two pregnancies because I chose to have sex with someone I was with for 6 months, but that is not the case. I chose to have unprotected sex, not wanting to create a baby, but not trying to prevent one either.

That man and I are no longer together and it really opened my eyes to everything. Yes I moved on very quickly to someone new, I chose to do that. If you do not like that I chose to do that than oh well. Yes me and this man have had unprotected sex twice, but only the day before my period. All other times are protected and TMI of course but who the hell doesn’t prefer unprotected sex 😬

If you want to call it a fantasy world, fine. But keep it to yourself. I’m happy we are happy. I’m gonna be an amazing obstetrician in a few more years and I have been very very blessed by God.

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V thanks everyone who had good things to say! ❤️❤️❤️❤️