I personally don’t believe porn is cheating, however, that said, I’m a bit confused rn.

I recently got into a relationship with an amazing man and, while he hadn’t says so, I get the “porn is cheating vibes” from him, as he no longer watches porn.

I mostly listen to erotic audio, I have since I was 16.

I essentially listen to men talk dirty or role play. It’s pretty recorded stuff on porn hub and sound hams, never custom made, and I love them, I get off so much.

I never imagine anyone when I play, I melt into pleasure and just listen to words, sometimes I think about trying things with him but that’s it’s.

I just can’t help but feel guilty sometimes, he knows I listen to audio porn but I don’t think he understands what I mean. He doesn’t like confrontation so I know if I ask he will say it doesn’t bug him.

I just think some other opinions may help.

Btw phone sex or dirty talk with him won’t work, he’s always sleeping when I touch myself haha.