My boyfriend wears a condom and the first time we had sex he pulled out really quick and came even though he had a condom on (not sure why he did that?) then the second time we had sex, I couldn’t tell if he finished because it wasn’t obvious, he just got soft then asked me if I was done and I said yeah I finished and I asked him if he did and he said “yeah that’s why I got soft when I pulled out of you” but idk if he actually did. Do some guys lie about cumming? He seemed into it but the first time we had sex he was WAY harder than the second time. We’ve only had sex twice so far. And no we aren’t kids, we are both almost 30.