before my husband and i got married we took a 6 month break. We eventually got back together I asked him if he dated/ talked to anyone else during the break and he said no. Then out of no where this girl ( who my husband said is a girl he went to high school with but never dated) starts to practically cyber stalk me. My husband just said she was obssessed with him and to pay it no mind. Then one day im on his phone and i see messages between then and hes telling her he loves her and he wants her to be the mother of his children ( these messages are dated two days before we got back together). The day after we got back together He tells her that hes been talking to me and he feels that he’s cheating on her so he thinks they should take a break. Is this cheating? Hes lied about other things before but ive known about this for a while and i just cant ket it go it has been making me so upset. I also dont want to start an argument with him. I could really use some advise.