*My MIL doesn't respect my boundaries, also the ones I have for my child. She is a loud and argumentative person, who is often screaming at her husband. Don't want my son picking up such habits.

My child is her first grandchild, I don't want her to overly pamper him. Her kids are loud and don't respect each other. Subtly she disregards me as his mother and likes telling people how close my child is to her and his aunt's 🙄I have been doing everything for my son since he was born. It's just now I want to go back to work 3 days a week.

With daycare I'm also quite apprehensive.

Don't know what to do

My mother doesn't live in the same country, otherwise it was a no brainer 😥