Last night my fiance was drinking and watching the football game when he suddenly just started starting at me.

He then reached over and lightly slapped me in both cheeks ( the ones on my face)and said

"you have really slappable cheeks"

The other day he was standing behind me while i was sitting on the couch and he wrapped his hands around my neck and kinda choked me for a few seconds

Idk if it's something sexual to him or a prelude to abuse

He's never hit me before but our arguments have been pretty heated in the past