Been dating my boyfriend for 5 years and we only have sex like 2 times a month if that. I don’t personally need sex all the time in a relationship (i feel like I’m weird because of this) I just grew up with both of my sisters getting pregnant so young so I think that experience turned me off completely to sex.

Anyways. Our relationship is amazing, the best it’s ever been but I feel like we should be having sex more but neither of us ever initiate it. It’s like neither of us want to take charge but all I want is a man that will take charge in that area — mostly because im shy due to only having 2 partners in my life.

Question #1: is it weird I’m not always horny at 26?

Question #2: How do I break out of my sex shell? I’m SO comfortable with him, we live together. I just still feel stiff about sex. :( I think about it all the time.

Helppp please!