I don't know what to do... My husband and I will start to fight because I didn't answer him quick enough. When I go to answer here just starts to yell for taking so long to answer, it's like bro I was trying to think of what I wanted to say. Then that just escalates.. Our daughter will be 2 in 17 days and we have a 7 wk 3day old.. I try to get as much sleep as I can, because I clean our apartment almost daily if not every other day. I do the laundry, I fold it and put it away. I take care of both the kids because he can't stop smoking weed or playing a video game long enough to even change a diaper. Since we brought my son home from the hospital he has changed maybe 5 diapers.. before he was born I was always chasing my daughter around and changing her butt all day. But anywho he works at a golf course so he didn't work as much this past month, so we are getting behind on bills.. But here's the thing we asked my older brother and my friend for help with rent and they did, except he didn't use all the money for rent.. he bought weed instead.. I went to ask him why he wasn't awake with our daughter this morning, because he normally takes the morning shift with her so I can get some sleep but today all hell broke loose.. I asked him why he wasn't awake because she was tearing the house apart.. He immediately got mad and we started to argue.. He then accused me of talking to other guys, 1 I haven't talked to any other guy that's not family since 2015 when we first started dating. 2 my ex keeps trying to talk to me even though we broke up early in 2015.. I haven't answered or even acknowledged it but he saw the message the other day and instantly got mad and was like why can't he leave us alone.. Idk lss his dad took him to work and took our daughter to their house and I told him not to come back. But he probably will... I don't know if I want him to or not... It's not like he does much around here. Like I said I take care of the kids for the majority of the time.. I just don't know what to do.. everyone in my family tells me to leave him and sometimes when I talk to his parents about his attitude or whatever they tell me that they're surprised I'm still with him so idk..