It seems like my man needs constant reassurance that I love him. That if I don’t spend every second of everyday just gazing adoringly at him and giving him my undivided attention that he thinks I love don’t him, or that he’s losing me or that he’s pissed me off. I can’t just look up from what I’m doing anymore with a blank face as I try to figure out what he said and how i should respond, because if I’m not smiling i’m pissed off. I don’t understand why he’s so insecure about it, we talked in the beginning of our relationship how I’m not a super overly affectionate person and that I just don’t need it to survive and he told me to love him however I can and he’d be alright. But basically everyday I feel like he demands more and that I don’t even scrap the top of the barrel of what he needs. Any advice? Please?

We live together and spend everyday together and most of all of our time together- The only time we spend a part is when we’re at work, or the once a month lunches I have with my old friend.