ldr with my bf and he’s home on winter break. Usually at school we’re only an hour apart, but when he’s home we’re 2 hrs apart. I asked him if we could call earlier bc he usually calls at 2am my time and it’s just a little too late for me. When I brought it up the first time he said sure, but didn’t really do anything. I brought it up again bc I was still upset and he proceeds to belittle me saying I don’t understand that he’s trying to spend more time with his family because I live at home. I get mad since he doesn’t call me earlier and he’s not socializing w his family. Instead he’s playing GAMES. I try to get him to explain that but I get frustrated and even more pissed so I hang up and we haven’t talked for two days.

I’ve realized that when this happens (I get mad and hang up)

I usually end up calling him back and apologizing, but sometimes I am reasonable about why I’m upset, but I apologize for my temper anyways because I don’t want to spend time arguing/ignoring each other. This time I didn’t because I want to see how long it takes him to apologize (or if he ever will) on his own.

Am I reasonable for being mad in the first place? If he doesn’t apologize, does it seem like he values his pride over our relationship?