Lap dance: cheating?

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If your man was going to a strip club and you TOLD him you didn’t care as long as he didn’t get a lap dance and he did, would you consider this to be cheating ?

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Whoops didn’t read all the way before voting. I meant yes. Y’all had an agreement beforehand and then he broke that and broke the trust

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I wouldn't define that as cheating but lying instead.

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Id consider it disrespectful but not cheating

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What’s the point of going to a strip club and not having a lap dance? That’s like a staple to strip clubs. Disrespectful, since y’all discussed it beforehand, but definitely in no way would I consider that cheating.

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I wouldn’t want a man throwing money at random chicks anyway. Half the stuff they do my boyfriend can see for free.

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No. I get them for him all the time. I think I’ll be a little uncomfortable if he’ll get them with the same chick over and over again. But nope he always chooses different ones

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So disrespectful 
If he’s going to promise not to do something and then does it 
It means he can’t be trusted in certain situations
To me a guy that can’t say no to a lap dance in a strip club is the same as a guy who can’t say no to a girl in a bar 
I wouldn’t trust him. He had ONE rule to follow and he couldn’t do it.

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Dude I go to the strip club with my husband and we both get lap dances from the girls😂

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I don’t consider it cheating. He didn’t have sex with her. He went to have fun. I’ve gone with my ex’s and his buddies to strip clubs Before.  I’ve never had any issues. I’ve bought my guy a lap dance and given him one and got on the pole and made 22 bucks lol. If he wanted to go I would tell him have fun. He comes home  to me. He’s honest with me. I don’t have any insecurities or jealousy. I would not try and control him. He’s not tracking down these women or pursuing them or contacting them afterwards and having sex with them. He didn’t hire a call girl. Etc. He went and had fun. She wakes him up and I finish him off.

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disrespectful and he has no regard for your feelings. That would really break my trust if I asked him something so simple and he couldn’t even have the self control to not do it.

Lap dance: cheating?

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