Hubby huffs over sex

So what r ur guys views?im on meds 4 anxiety so my sex drive has gone from crazy til about 10%.hubby pesters me 4 sex everyday.we do it prob 3-4 times a week but honestly most of the time i just do it so he doesnt huff and b in a bad mood the next day.yes he gives me sexy comments all day but no affection,im always tellin him i cant even hug him or he thinks im up 4 it🙄if i talk 2 him about it he plays the victim,how i nvr initiate sex or put any effort in.but im tired all the time,wrkin and 2 kids.The other nite i got so sick of him askin every 10mins i said just go ahead he put on a show of,oh not if ur not in the mood,clearly i wasnt but he did it anyway.i was mad.any ideas?please no bad comments