a while back, i finally told my mom that i was bisexual. she isn’t for or against homosexuality bc she doesn’t understand it. she kinda just questioned me then left it alone and didn’t make a big deal out of it. well yesterday, a big thing happened where my sister got caught not being totally truthful about a party she threw a few months ago (my mom took everything from her). basically my sister was sleeping around and drinking etc. so i FINALLY admitted to my mom that i’m not innocent either. my body count is 5 (my husband completed that list), i used to smoke weed all the time (i’d pass out for over 2 hours sometimes from smoking, one time i even passed out at his dealers house 😬). i was drinking and smoking cigs all the time etc. and i even told my mom that i’ve miscarried before too (which was so hard to talk about because of how badly i want kids, and i’ve miscarried twice now). my mom was so supportive and felt horrible to know that i was doing all of that without her having a clue what i was going through. she didn’t know what to say other than sorry (it’s not all her fault tho lol).

i just wanted to post this because honestly, coming clean can really mend a relationship that may be a little tarnished or scratched. just try it out and don’t be scared :)