Okay after a really difficult day today (I'm also 12 weeks preggo) my hubby decides it's a great time to bring up a convo he had with his mom about our daughter. Apparently my MOL wants to take our daughter who is 17 months old away for 5 days to PA...we are in TN in April. I immediately was like nope! Hubby seemed offended I didn't think twice about it. MOL wants to take her to meet my hubby's grandma who isn't doing to well. I am not okay with her taking my toddler away out of state. She has only had her once overnight. My hubby does have reservations about it also. Not as many reservations as me though. Also she didn't mention taking my son (he's 14) along.

Am I being unreasonable here?