So. I need support from someone who has had kids. I'm struggling. My husband and I have been married for a year and a half and have decided to have our first baby. But we are waiting to tell anyone because of pressure from families etc. I'm 22 and he is 28 and I really just want this time to be about us. However I am a carrier of hemophilia and my younger brother has mild hemophilia. (Hemophilia is when your blood does not clot so you have to take medics to help it clot). I know my mom had 8 miscarriages and with my brother was extremely high risk. Does anyone who has had a high risk pregnancy have any advice?