Am I a crap wife and mother?

Olivia

My parents and step parents and best friend make quite a few comments and some times out right statements that imply I'm a pretty crap wife

I had a horrific birth and since having him I've become a bitch to my husband

I'm be coming more aware of how horrible I am

I'm snappy and stressed and tired

I hate how I snap at him but it just comes out before I can tell myself not to. I'm tired of repeating myself and picking up dirty laundry but it's no need to snap and roll my eyes

He's a brilliant man and so sweet and I feel like I'm ruining him and breaking him down.

If anyone has any advice how to become a better person and chill the eff out?!