I know i’m not the only one with quite large lips/ vulva that doesn’t look like the perfect vagina but i just need some help with it all!

Because it don’t look nice to me i’m so scared to show anyone it when i eventually get into a relationship!😫

Also it’s hard to keep clean all the time as the sides of the lips next to my skin get this white stuff like it’s been sweaty and i don’t even know what to do no more😣