My partner NEVER wakes up in the night to help me. I am EBF, so 99% of the time this doesnt bother me. But sometimes my baby wont want to go to sleep after. He will push his pacifyer out of his mouth and cry until someone puts it back in. And my partner will just lay there and ignore him and make me repeatedly get out of bed to deal with it. My partner works a 9-5 job. Im a SATM, first time mom with a 2 month old.

Not only am I not getting sleep tonight, but for the last week and a half my baby has been super fussy, and refusing to nap. So I will spend all day trying to comfort a screaming baby who wont nap, and in return I dont get to nap either. Im so fed up.

Is this fair?