If your closest relative or friend started to date someone married or in a relationship before them & was in denial about that person and their romantic interest still being together, would you tell the other man/woman?

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Basically if your closest friend or relative started dating someone in a relationship prior & literally all the flags pointed to them still being in a relationship, but he/she ignored the signs and continued the affair, would you tell the other party involved & how would you?

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not sure i could be friends with someone like that to be honest ? so personally i wouldn’t be in this experience. however ! if i was, i would tell them it’s wrong, being a home wrecker isn’t cute/a job and makes you look terrible when you *personally* know them and think think could do better. every promises to their affair they’re leaving and they love them when in reality it’s a joke and they just need a side piece away from home and don’t wanna lose any benefits /risking a divorce 🙄

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My younger brother started dating a girl who was already in a relationship with someone else. I told her boyfriend

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It’s their life. Not my business. There’s something called don’t kill the messenger. And that person flips out on you, instead of them and blames you, for ruining their life. I’ve been the messenger and no thanks, never again. That woman was insane. The one she should have been mad at was him.  Not my monkeys, not my circus, I will never again get involved with other people’s business. Same thing when the cops get involved with a domestic case why multiple cops show up. He’s beating her but when the cops try and take him, she flips out and attacks the cops. Intense emotions make people do crazy things. She’s a grown woman and can make her own decisions. Not my business. You can tell her how you feel about it but I wouldn’t get involved for your own safety.

If your closest relative or friend started to date someone married or in a relationship before them & was in denial about that person and their romantic interest still being together, would you tell the other man/woman?

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