thoughts on dating/reconnecting while pregnant
Here’s the situation:
I was with a man for almost 5 years, found out i was pregnant and he tried forcing an abortion on me. When i said i would be continuing the pregnancy he said we were done, quit his job, and booked a one way flight back home (a 10 hour flight away). The last 6-8 months of the relationship were rocky, we were disagreeing on our values & what we wanted in life & he claims he hasn’t been happy for a while & me deciding to keep the baby he didn’t want was the final straw.
It’s been almost a month since this took place. Recently an old friend that i had a lot of chemistry with has been in contact with me. He has been beyond supportive, immediately assuring me if i need anything to not be afraid to ask and overall has been amazing about the situation. Not pushing me into anything but dropping subtle hints that he cares deeply for me & would take on baby in a heartbeat.
I should also mention we had considered being together YEARS ago but unfortunately timing and distance was an issue we were both transferring to colleges on opposite ends of the country.
Now, don’t get me wrong. I know i’m 100% not ready to jump into a relationship. I’m focusing on myself and baby and slowly picking up the pieces my ex left behind. I guess what i’m wondering is does reconnecting with my friend and very slowly seeing where things go while keeping myself and baby as the top priority sound like a very bad idea?
I’d love to hear some stories/advice/etc.
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