How do you know a relationship is over?

I’ve been with my partner for three and a half years. The things I loved about him have begun to change, and we’re starting to move in different directions. He used to be super ambitious, creative and had a desire to continuously be better. That’s not so much the case anymore.

He isn’t super emotional competent and I struggle with his inability to communicate how he’s feeling or understand what I feel.

We went on an overseas trip and I wanted him to propose and he didn’t. I don’t know if he ever will.

We live together and we have lived together for over 2 years. He never does anything I ask him to, it always takes two or three times. The only chore he will do without me requesting is laundry, but that’s generally because he needs clothes washed..

There’s so many little things I could go on about and there’s so many positives too..

I just don’t know if I want this anymore, so I guess my main thing is; how do you know when a relationship is over?