Over reacting ??

UPDATE:

So I expressed myself some more. And he said I don’t see the big del with it explain it to me. Everything we’ve had the conversation MULTIPLE times before. He said disrespect didn’t make sense to him. So I told him new year new decade I’m done being walked all over just for him to get everything he wants while my feelings are never taken into consideration. And he goes “go ahead and take another kid away from their parent wouldn’t be the first time” I NEVER said I would block him out of his daughters life. I have another kid from a previous relationship but he’s fathered since my son was two. He was petty about it all. Well. Our daughter that he was “so upset” about losing fame down with a fever later today. She has not let me put her down she just constantly wants to be held. I had no medicine for her and her doctor wrote a prescription for Tylenol to give her. Tried calling him so he could pick it up after work since we only have one car. Called 5Xs and none of which he answered. Even when I texted him please this about our daughter she’s not doing well. NOPE. He ended up going straight to his buddies after work to drink and smoke weed. Meanwhile I was home trying to soothe our daughter who’s crying non stop while trying to make dinner for my son. I’ve never been so stressed. But that right there was the final straw. He was so petty about what I said that he couldn’t set aside his own feelings to make sure she was okay. Haven’t heard from him since 2 pm. THANK YOU.next.

So a few weeks ago my bf went to a chick bar with his coworker during lunch and lied to me about it. Because I’ve expressed multiple time how I thought it was disrespectful. (He cheated on me for 2 years) so I’ve been insecure since. Well he did it again today. And it was just the final straw for me. And he thinks I’m over reacting. It’s not just that tho. It’s we just had a baby and she still doesn’t have a damn mattress for her crib, luckily tho my insurance gave me a pack and play for free. He never wants to spend money on things we need til the possible minute.and since he’s the only one working I don’t like to tell him what to do with it since he works hard for it. But he always says it’s our money and puts me in charge of bills and savings. And every time I do get us on track I HATE spending the money but he has no problem doing it. It hurts my feelings. Especially when I’m at home busting my ass to make sure laundry is done. The house is cleaned. Meanwhile he’s out there doing something I said I didn’t like at all. Am I over reacting??

Also two weeks ago, he was like I wanna go out to eat. But he didn’t want to spend money. So my mom sent ME 50 bucks to take my son out to eat. And HE chose where to go not our son. But yet has no problem spending money to go to a chics bar with the guys?!😡😩