He says things to me like he misses our lives before baby. The freedom we had. I'm not able to sleep in our bed due to allergies and reflux so baby wont sleep unless held but were getting better on that. He misses holding me at night. He says shes ruined our lives then apologizes and says he didnt mean that. He says he loves her but he never wants to hold her. He says she hates him. Probably because shes not familiar with him. I feel like he resents her. Should he see a doctor? Or am I thinking too much into this?