Is this normal

Guys, Idk what to do. My husband is crazy- like literally crazy. He is NEVERRRRRRRRRRRR happy with me. He complains about me ALL. THE. TIME. And everything is ALWAYS my fault. I SERIOUSLY feel like this is mental abuse.

Things be bitches about (in just the last 24 hours)

My 2.5 year old woke up crying this morning- which I expected since she wet the bed last night at 4 am. I had to change her clothes and sheets so it took her another hour to fall back asleep. She fell asleep right around when we wake up and get ready for work. So I’m in the bathroom (literally just hopped out of the shower) and my husband goes “ why is she crying so much. What did you do? Does she want the tit or ur phone?” (He has an issue with my still BFing her at this age and sometimes I give her the phone so she can watch while I get a moment to get things done in peace”

My daughter kept crying and crying so I finally gave her a moment to nurse and my husband comes up to me and goes “OH, so she DID want the tit” he has an issue with me on this bec again I’m still nursing. But if I don’t give it to her and she cries, I’m the bad one for instilling this habit.

I try to change the subject and talk about an issue I had at work (I was really stressing out) and while he’s eating he cuts me off and says he doesn’t want to hear about my job and that there are things to do. I literally sat there with tears in my eyes. I have no support from him. None at all.

Fast forward to 5 pm and we’re both home. He’s never home this early but he has an intensive class this weekend so he was home at 5. Anyways, he went to take our older child to soccer. I stayed behind to start cleaning and setting laundry. I went to set it, came back, cleaned, and then went back to change the load to drying. I took his wet work shirts back home to hang. I didn’t get to it bec I was working on something else. My husband returns from soccer with my older kid and I go to shower him. He saw the bag with wet laundry and AGAIN said condescendingly “WHY ARE MY WET SHIRTS HERE”.

Is this normal? Any advice? Does anyone go through this when things get tough? I feel like no one talks about the bad moments- only the good ones which just leaves me scratching my head on what’s normal and what’s not.