My marriage is going through a strugggllleee. We are stations in the same place where his family lives and it’s killing our marriage. I got mistreated horribly by his mom 3 days after he got back from deployment and it’s been down hill ever since. I just don’t feel comfortable going around his family anymore. I need help, advice anything. My husband doesn’t understand that I am his family now. I feel like he doesn’t care about my feelings at all towards his parents and family and no matter what I say he sticks up for them. I’m honestly to my stopping point with everything. He just doesn’t understand that my feelings should matter too. As his wife he should care about how I truly feel about his family that lives down the street. They always expect us to visit them and get so butt hurt when they haven’t seen him in over a week but they don’t ever take the time to come visit us. Nothing makes sense. And his family doesn’t care about me either. As long as they see him they’re fine. But I’m not. and neither is my marriage.