My fiance and I are doing a intimate gender reveal for just us two. I need ideas of how to celebrate it.We thought about going to our favorite restaurant. Then have the waitress bring us a dessert that says it's a boy or girl. We also thought of going to the bakery and have cupcakes made.And have that as dessert after the restaurant. I will be getting bloodwork done to determine the sex of the baby. Do I tell the doctor i don't want to know and seal it in a envelope.