Gets so upset she throws up

My one year old is my second she is so tough. She cries/screams at everything when shes not allowed to do something or when I put her in her crib to sleep. She will literally work herself up it makes her gag then she throws up. Im literally at my wits end. Im losing my mind. She wont sleep in her crib I tried the cry it out method she was well fed and dry and she literally will cry and cry then throw up. 😭😭😭 what do I do?!? Please no rude comments TIA!!!