Depression

Me and my fiancé have been trying for a baby for 8 months I had a positive back in July that led me bleeding a week after for four weeks and it has put me into depression bc all he talks about recently is what if u had this tattoo on ur belly and u was pregnant the tree would grow so much and baby this baby that and I stopped talking about it bc it hurt him idk what to do we have tried opks preseed and everything