Facial hair/happy trail hair

Ladies , what do you do for upper lip hair and like chin hair? I get some dark ones on my chin, and I feel so disgusting :( the hairs on my upper lip aren't bad but i am very self conscious about it... and happy trail hair, I screwed up years back and decided to shave it! And after that the hairs have grown back so dark and thicker! Ugh! Help ladies help :( could my hormones be out of whack?

Any remedies or anything of what you do would be helpful.