I have a 4 year old daughter 💜 she's our world but we have been trying for 3 years now to give her a sibiling. Last Sunday my s-i-l told us she is (unexpectedly) expecting #2. I'm excited for another baby to love. Not gonna lie it hurt a little but I'm still excited for them. Today my cousin (who is more like a sister) told us she is 10 weeks pregnant, her son is only 4 months so this one is also unexpected. When she told her s-i-l (my other cousins wife) that they were expecting they went home and started trying for #2, she's already pregnant. 😑 I'm excited for all of them but I'm definitely hurting a little today and can't talk to them about it. They always say that they were scared to tell me because we have been trying for so long and they don't want to hurt me. That just makes me feel like I can't talk to them about being bummed out about everything. Just wanted to get it out and talk to someone who understands. This is such a lonely road we are on, hang in there everyone and remember you're not alone!