I’m so glad everyone is enjoying their sex lives but at the same time I can’t stand it! All my life I’ve been surrounded by people who love sex and masturbating and it’s so frustrating. Sex has never been something I’ve super enjoyed. I loved the partners I was with but I never needed it. I did it for them. I also hate masturbating and can literally never do it. I have sex with my boyfriend once a week maybe every two. It’s not fun for me. I never can even tell if I’m having an orgasm and by half way through I’m really not feeling much. I felt this way with all the people I’ve slept with. Ugh I just don’t know what to do.

Okay update: he loves to give oral I hate to receive it. We have tried everything. Bondage for both of us, role playing, toys, romantic stuff, spontaneous stuff, watching porn together, ice, candle wax, everything. It does nada for me.