I’ve been with a guy for 2yrs and it was great at first I lost my virginity to him and he was my first love type of ordeal but since he was older than me I would listen to and think what he was sayin was right but I snapped out of it and figured out he was toxic and negative all the time and when I had mental break does and anxiety attacks he would laugh at that. But now I’ve meet a person who is a year older than me and he’s awesome he does and say things that my now ex would say or do but he’s in the military and he told me even when we were friends that he wasn’t lookin for a relationship and I understood that because he is focus on the military and we both go to the same college and stuff I was going to transfer to be closer to my ex good thing I didn’t and the guy that’s in the military really wants me to stay I was going to stay regardless because I’ve already made a lot of good genuine friends and another bad part to it is that I won’t see him in 6-9 months