Dear boyfriends “ex”

I really wish you’d let us live in peace. You were together for a short period of time. Yes, we all know how wonderful of a man he truly is and makes a great impression on those he meets.

Here’s where you messed up... you chose a man over your own children. You thought quitting your job was a good idea so you could move in with him. Newsflash hun, he doesn’t like deadbeat parents, he also doesn’t like a woman that doesn’t have a job.

He quickly found out what type of person you are and not only that, you lied about something serious to keep him in your life. He realized you’re not the type of person he wanted to be with and called it quits with you.

Throughout the time you’ve been broken up, you’ve mailed him letters and cards. You’ve contacted his family, friends, and even gone as far as texting him. You don’t need to know how he’s doing but I’ll fill you in since you’re so curious.

He has a girlfriend (me) and we’ve been in a loving and wonderful relationship for 3 years. I have 1 child that he loves and we have plans to get married. We are also trying for a baby and have been for a while.

He showed me the text you sent him a few months back. Have you wondered why he never responded? Hopefully this puts it in perspective for you why. You didn’t need to send him a picture of you, trust me... he remembers as do his friends and family. They aren’t memories of fondness if that’s what you were hoping for.

You think I don’t know who you are but we actually know the same people so I know quite a bit about you. Thankfully, he was smart enough to wear protection if he even went that far with you.

I’m not jealous of what you “had” and I never will be. I’ll just be glad when I never have to hear your name again - quite frankly, it does give me a bit of a chuckle.

Have a good day. 🖕