The guy I’ve been seeing says that he gets really dark, negative “vibes” when we are sexually intimate. We both agree that we get along great but I definitely have felt him pull away the last week or so.

While I have my insecurities and have definitely experienced trauma in romantic relationships in the past, I don’t feel the dark energy that he says he feels from me. I have however become more anxious in our sexual intimacy because I don’t feel wanted by him since he is so uncomfortable being intimate with me.

I sent him this text yesterday.

His response was

We agreed to meet tomorrow... but haven’t heard from him since last night.

It feels really weird. How do we have a great emotional connection but a really bad sexual connection?

I’m thinking that I need to just end it with him... and I’m sad.