I glared at him when he smiled and waved at me.. and he kept saying to the woman he knew (that was next to me) that she needs to find him a good girl etc while we were in the holding cells and when we got on the pattiwagon to jail. (I was innocent believe it or not) .. but this dude actually memorized my name and address and wrote to me like he said he would.. when I only gave him my address once, thinking he was full of shit and nothing but talk. .. I got home to mail from him and wrote him back/gave him my phone number. In 1st letter he wanted to be pen pals and more if anything developed but by time I was able to respond to him he was worried that I hadn’t contacted him and wanted me to be his girl right then and there. He seems nice and genuine , as to where I knew my ex was evil immediately. I don’t know what to make of this and if I’m stupid or if everything really does happen for a reason 🤔 all I can ever think/assume that something is happening is gonna turn out to be a bad thing. he’s 1 yr older than me and in court that day I got shamed for being older than my ex even tho he’s well past the age limit/past drinking limit. Like.. can this be good and my light at the end of the tunnel or is this where the rest of me gets set on fire and kicked into the ground? Has anyone else ever started a relationship like this? He has like 8-10 months left.