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okay so i’m a 14 year old girl and i’ve been masturbating since i was about 9 and i really want to have sex.. the only problem is that i don’t know any guys who’d be willing to do it with me.. any advice? it’s not like i can get on tinder so idk what to do..

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Wait until you have a boyfriend. Sex is not something you just "do" with anybody. Especially at that age.

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My advice is get on birth control now so if you do meet someone and start a relationship you are ready if anything does happen.

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My advice? Wait until you find someone special. Masturbate and enjoy yourself but unless you’re ready to financially and emotionally support having a baby, wait. It’s seriously not worth it. You have lots of time once you finish school and get your life going to enjoy that.

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I remember being your age and feeling similar. I'm going with the other comments on waiting until youre older. Get on birth control and talk about these feelings with a trusted adult if you have one. I felt the same and I went ahead and did it anyway. My feelings about it? Complete regret. I'm not saying wait for marriage or for a forever partner. Sex is natural and the desire to have it is natural. Keep enjoying yourself, if you find yourself with someone and you're both ready for it, make sure you are safe with condoms and birth control. As for meeting someone, you're young. Go to school, engage in your hobbies, make friends. That's how you meet you people to become close to whether it be a boyfriend or girlfriend or a really good friend or best friend. Being a teenager is tough, there's a lot of emotions that are hard to really make sense of. Focus on being your wonderful self, and the rest will work itself out in time.

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Get on birth control, USE condoms!!!!! 
 DON’T listen to the 
“it feels better without” 
“if you love me we don’t have to use condoms” . 
Std’s are scary and real. Just as pregnancies. If you aren’t ready for pregnancy or STD/STI’s PLEASE use protection. 
I didn’t catch anything thankfully, but I regret not using because getting tested for STD’s and waiting for the results is SCARY as anything. Be safe, sex is normal and  okay always when youre safe & can consent.

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i had the same problem as you, get a boyfriend and wait so you don’t rush things then you guys can have sex. don’t go with a random guy you just met because that’s not the best. i went with a random guy and hella regret it. kinda wish i just waited and did it with my current boyfriend so don’t rush to have sex.

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