Help! husband ruining my life

My husband & I separated in October (not legally) well he hasn’t paid me anything since for our kids neither has he even came to see them but he’s stolen tons of money from me from hacking my online banking to using my social & ordering credit cards. I called the police they told me that they can’t do anything because we are married😫 I can’t get a divorce until 2 years separated unless he agrees and he won’t & he’s also stalking me and following me making sure I don’t get another guy or something I’m so fed up idk what to do. I’ve tried talking to his family they said he won’t listen to them I can’t break my lease it’s not over until June but with everything he’s stolen it’d be impossible to move. I’m not working right now because of a arm fracture & im just paying bills with the little left of my savings