Ok with porn?

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Serious question, because I truly want to know how you ladies feel- why are you okay with your husband/SO jacking off to another naked women? They are getting hard seeing another girl naked that isn’t you, they are getting off to someone that isn’t you. What makes porn ok in your eyes? Some ladies say that they are not physically having sex with the girl, BUT they are still getting off to someone that’s not you?