Me and my boyfriend met at work a year ago. Another girl also worked with us who has a fiance and a step daughter. She would flirt with him all the time, message him, dance round him as she used to be a stripper and slagged me off to him because she knew we were getting together. She bad mouthed me on her last day working with him to try and get him to fuck me off and get with him.

We then saw her at the gym a few months ago. She didnt say hi, but gave me dirty looks with her friend from across the gym. Then when we left she messaged my boyfriend on facebook trying to flirt with him. He didnt reply and we left it at that. Weve just been to the gym and I walked past her. This is the first time weve seen her since. Initially I was alone when I saw her and she gave me dirty looks. Then i saw her again 2 minutes later whilst I was waiting for my boyfriend to come out of the changing rooms. She was stood near me and when my boyfriend came out she said hi to him and got all smiley. I said to her 'I never got that smile' and she said it's because I never smiled at her (neither did my boyfriend) and I said 'thats because I dont like you'. And we walked off. My boyfriend had ago at me for it, but if a guy had bad mouthed him to me, flirted with me, danced on me, given him dirty looks then smiled at him I'm sure hed have done a lot more than make a passing comment. I'm currently at his sat in the garden freezing (UK) because I dont even want to talk to him.