I feel nervous asking my doctor when I can have sex again

I had a miscarriage with d&c a week and a half ago and I have been wanting to have sex. I’m no longer bleeding. I have an appointment soon and maybe she’ll go over that with me, but I feel like a terrible person for even caring about when I can have sex again. I feel like that should be the last thing on my mind, but I am really wanting some physical intimacy right now. Please don’t judge me too harshly but has anyone else felt this way? Like they’d be judged for wanting sex after something very sad??