Fighting over sex. So tired of it!!

Me and my husband have very different sex drives, his is waaay higher than mine and he'd want to have sex everyday, sometimes 2-3 times a day. I obviously dont want to have sex that much and I'd be okay with every other day or every 2 days. Most of the time when he initiates I never turn him down. I honestly only turn him down like 10% of the time. The other times I usually give in because I know he needs it more and I think sex is an important part of the relationship. But lately, such as today, he has been acting resentful towards me because we haven't had sex in 2 DAYS. Like 2 freaking days. And he never even tried to initiate! So now I'm upset because it's like how can you be mad at me when you didnt even try to initiate?? And I'm soo freaking tired of him being upset if we miss a day without having sex. Its getting so old especially since I do try and give in to him 90% of the time! I usually never say no and even the other day I didnt want to but I still did. Like what more does he expect if I'm already doing it sometimes when I dont even want to? Theres really not much more I can do. But now were fighting and I dont know what to do. Someone please help!!

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Ju

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This happened with my husband when I was pregnant with my daughter, they get tired of being the only one to initiate. I know that may sound a bit absurd because they aren't really giving us time to WANT to initiate..but that's more than likely what the issue is on his end. Men need to feel wanted too.

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Leonela • Jan 31, 2020
I totally agree with this I figured out that was my boyfriends problem. He felt like he was unattractive because he always initiated it. So now even sometimes when I’m not in the mood I’ll initiate and he just gets 100% happy from it.

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Aleisha • Jan 31, 2020
I agree with this. Men want you to initiate it too sometimes. My husband told me this so now the problem is I initiate too much 🙄

kk

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he’s being ridiculous. sounds like you are going above and beyond to cater to him, even sacrificing your own needs. he needs to get a grip, i’d definitely have some words for him. you don’t owe him sex everyday and it’s not like he’s being deprived. maybe he should start taking your feelings into consideration and quit acting like a child. he’s fully capable of jerking off if his sex drive is that high.

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I'm sure you husband wants to feel sexy and sexually attractive to you. Roles reversed, how would you feel?

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That's weird, I don't remember saying that she did?

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Kailyn • Jan 31, 2020
Ok but she doesn’t need to fuck him every day of the week

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Can't he masturbate? I could not imagine having sex every day. I'm sorry this is causing problems for you. ❤