i lost my femininity?

A while a go i was going through depression and anxiety and taking meds, i gained lots of weight ( i used to be skinny) i cut my hair very short and dyed it (didn’t suit me) and i kept cutting it as it grew. Now im feeling better and lost some weight and i miss my beautiful long hair. It takes forever for my hair to grow and meanwhile i just overplucked my eyebrows out of frustration of how uneven they looked. Now i feel ugly and not feminine enough. I am 23 but i feel i look much older :(

Need advice how to look fresh and young and feminine again.