So I’m 17. 18 this year 🥰and I’m in a long distance relationship. I have been for nearly 9 months. Here’s a bit of background. We met over Instagram I had posted about doing GCSEs and she hmu and we got talking. The more we got to know eachother the more It turned into more than friends. She asked me to be hers 8/06/19 at like 10 at night 😂

She made some silly teenage mistakes (her family allow her to be a teen so party’s and stuff like that mine do not) we got over those bumps in the road together. We started collage together just miles apart. We are both settling into our courses rather well and our relationship is strong.

Families play a big part of our relationship due to our ages (shes 6 months younger) so her family are accepting of me her mom loves talking to me on the rare occasion she gets the chance her dad is trying to process the fact his daughter is with a girl but he likes me. So do her sisters so it’s all good up there. Down her my family make life hard. They don’t like her they say she isn’t real (we ft Snapchat call have pictures all regular ) my friends love her. My mom has grounded me for things like texting her 4 messages in a row. Like sure okay. Her mom hates that my girls mom is so accepting and let’s us be ourselves. I’ve been dragged from her bed to the landing by my brother bc I refused to believe that my gf didn’t love me. They say you can’t love someone till you meet them. I’ve been called a psychopath bc I believe she loves me and I love her. Planning to meet is hard but we hope April. However recently things got made so much more complicated. Being 17 and curious we tried out something we both consented to and was happy however my mum found out and hit the roof. Mastabation In females is something she doesn’t allow. But she hit the roof called me names and my gf made me block her on my phone and told me I couldn’t speak to her. My girl messaged my mum and some how we are allows to be friends but I’m not allowed to say I love her call her my gf or anything relationship wise. So I would normally call her baby and they ridicule me for it but I’m not allowed to do it anymore. It’s killing me. I can’t even say I want a hug from my gf. My gfs mom is rather accepting and doesn’t mind the fact we are exploring but being safe. No nudes or anything like that. So I guess I’m stuck. 17 in college no money no way to stand up for myself or it gets physical. She’s now threatening to ruin my girls mom job for allowing it. I have no idea what to do I just know I love this girl with everything I have