My best friends respond wasn’t good... she said, “I’m really scared for you, I don’t know if this is a good thing.”

My Husband and I had a miscarriage last year. That threw me into a really bad depression. We were trying to conceive for 2 1/2 years and looking into help at the time we found out we were pregnant. Only for it to end in a blighted ovum. The whole experience was very traumatizing. From the extremely rude doctors yelling at me each visit to the nurse that told me the day I found out saying “this is why you shouldn’t bring people to the first Ultrasound.” (Not something I thing anyone should say to anyone) My levels were still very high, I ended up taking the medication to get arid of what was left my pregnancy. I was suppose to be 12 weeks but my sac only grew to 6 without baby. The medication was excruciating.

Now a little under a year later we are expecting our little rainbow baby. I’m trying to stay positive and was excited to be passed the 6 weeks. (7+1) And again her response wasn’t really what I wanted to hear. “I’ll be more excited once we get to, and past, 12 weeks. But still, hooray!❤️” Not completely negative, I know. But I’m trying to only fill myself with positivity. And it still stung. Regardless if we get past the 12 weeks it’s still our baby. And I love him or her forever.

Do I bring it up to her or let it go? My husband thinks I just shouldn’t talk about it anymore with her but it’s a huge part of our life and I really love the support. She was there for me through everything last time and I was hoping she’d do the same this.

Thank you for reading if you made it this far. ❤️