So me and my boyfriend were hanging out with his friend(let’s call him Nick) & girlfriend (let’s call her Liz.) Anyways, we were drinking but not enough to be drunk and just talking.

At one point Me and Nick were in our own conversation talking about music and Liz & my bf we’re talking about whatever and I overheard

Liz randomly asking my boyfriend if he’s ever been in a Threesome.

(Which to me seems a little inappropriate to be asking , especially for my first time meeting her & her bf)

So my boyfriend answers and he just says “yes”

Shiiiiit I didn’t even know that 😬

So Liz keeps pressing my boyfriend with these sexual questions. Then she asks “have you ever been in an orgy?” He says “yes”

And I’m like

I’m finding out about his sexual adventures through some other girl asking 😅 and I didn’t know how to feel at that point. SO THEN she asked him “what’s the most amount of people have you had sex with at a time?”

And he sounds unsure and responds “uh like 20.” And I’m like TWENTY?!?!?!

Now... At this point I’m uncomfortable

1. This girl I don’t know is asking my boyfriend sexual questions &

2. I had no idea about this.

and so cut the conversation short.

So fast forward me and my boyfriend are on our way home and on the car ride I was kinda more shocked by the his sexual history than Liz & her invasive questions.

I HATE this question but I asked him what his body count was, out of curiosity. He’s clean & healthy & childless so that’s what really matters.

So I’m like 30?… 40? ... 50?... 60?!

And he says “no higher”

Anyways he stops me at 100+ he doesn’t know the exact number but it’s over 100. … we’re both 22 years old btw. And 😬 tbh that number kinda bothers me sometimes if I think about it. I’ve only had sex with 2 people including him.

Either way I still try not to judge him, and I don’t want to. But it’s hard not to overthink.