My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. We had a baby 3 months ago and everything has been going so well EXCEPT for the fact that our sex life sucks. And it’s not just because of the baby..

my boyfriend has a long sexual past and every time I hear about it, I’m shocked, because he literally never wants to have sex with me. He never initiates it. When I initiate it, he only lasts 5 mins. He hardly shows any affection toward me. He doesn’t go down on me.. he doesn’t have any romance in the bedroom.. he doesn’t make me feel like I’m sexy or desirable which is a big change for me compared to my last relationship. I don’t know what’s wrong with me.. but I just feel like he is not sexually attracted to me. How can someone be so sexual at one point in life and then as soon as he starts dating me.. he never wants it..

I just want to break down and cry at this point because I feel so bad about myself. I’ve tried talking to him. He says he’s attracted to me .. but this problem has not resolved. Idk if I’m looking for advice because I don’t know what to try anymore. But I guess if anyone has anything to say then throw it my way because I’m feeling pretty hopeless at this point.