I’m beyond embarrassed and I don’t know what else to do. My man can’t stay hard when I’m on top during sex and his explanation is bc he knows I’m uncomfortable riding & he can feel it DURING so it throws him off & he can’t focus. Now when I am on top attempting to practice & take initiative....He tries to be really supportive and encouraging and I appreciate him for that but the fact that I can literally feel his dick soft makes me want to cry. I am at a loss and don’t know how to fix this. It makes me insecure like I can’t please him or eventually he’ll grow tired of sex with me. It only happens when I’m on top....

I wanna ask if I’m loose and if it just doesn’t feel good to him but I’m nervous. Besides if that were true, he’d probably never tell me bc that would hurt. No negative comments about him please bc he does try. And I’m trying but I feel like I’ve run out of my own ideas so here I am....